Archive for February, 2008

Alice

Wednesday, February 27th, 2008

I decided to post this because of a recent article my friend Monica Roberts posted about finding out that Gabrielle Pickett was murdered in 2003. She was the twin sister of Chanelle Pickett who was murdered in 1997. The loss upset her so much that she wrote an article for her blog called “I’m Pissed.”

In 2004, the Atlanta Pride Committee had a contest to write a true story about someone in the LGBT community and I was moved to write one about my friend Alice, who took her life after being unemployed for 15 months and was turned away from from homeless shelters for being a transgender woman.

I wrote this story at the initial length they asked for and they accepted it. However, they wanted me to trim it by a few hundred words, so I did. After that, they wanted me to trim it even more and completely remove the ending. That I wouldn’t do. The ending IS the story. I hope Joe Solmonese gets to read this.

(The following is a first person account of the last fifteen months of my friend, Alice Johnston’s life, as if she may have told it. The events in this actually happened. – MFH –)

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ALICE
by Monica F. Helms

 

I stared at the television screen in disbelief as one of the World Trade Center buildings crumbled into dust, then the next one. The horror I witnessed would haunt me for the rest of my life and the news estimated that over 3000 people lost their lives that day. What they didn’t say – or know – was how many more lives would become impacted by that fatal day. I would soon find out that I, Alice Johnston, would be one of them. (more…)

And, the Oscar goes to . . . Transgender Cinema

Sunday, February 24th, 2008

by Monica F. Helms Monica’s Picture

“Steady boy. Just keep telling yourself you’re a girl.” - “I’m a girl…I’m a girl…I’m a girl.”

“Hormones are hormones. Yours and mine just happen to come in purple little pills.”

“I don’t want IT in my house.”

“When a straight man puts on a dress and goes on a sexual kick he is a transvestite. When a man is a woman trapped in a man’s body and has a little operation he is a transsexual. When a gay man has way too much fashion sense for one gender he is a drag queen.”

“I do wish we could chat longer, but I’m having an old friend for dinner.”

“Well, a boy’s best friend is his mother.”

“Attica! Attica!”

“You know, I used to feel that way too until I found out that Alexander the Great was a fag. Talk about gays in the military!”

“I’m not a fucking drag queen.”

“I was a better man with you, as a woman, than I ever was with a woman, as a man. Know what I mean? I just gotta learn to do it without the dress.” (more…)

Black History Month – William Cathay

Wednesday, February 20th, 2008

by Monica F. Helms Monica’s Picture

I have found this month to be one of the most educational months in the year. All around are wonderful articles, History Channel shows and TV spots that have given me an insight to many aspects of our African American citizens and their history. Even though I am not of African decent, I would like to talk about a person in American history who helped to inspire me to work on transgender veterans’ issues. Cathay Williams was the first and only known African American woman to serve as a Buffalo Soldier in the US Army, officially serving as William Cathay. (more…)

Educational Initiative, Charlotte, NC

Monday, February 18th, 2008

by Monica F. Helms Monica’s Picture 

Since this article will find its way to various non-trans-specific blogs, I should begin with describing what an Educational Initiative is and a little history behind them.  The EI was a creation of long-time activist, Angela Brightfeather when she was the Chair of the National Transgender Advocacy Coalition’s Activism Committee.  Her idea came about in 2001, when the transgender community was having difficulty convincing the Human Rights Campaign to support inclusion in ENDA.  Déjà vu all over again?

An EI is NOT a protest in spite of what many may think.  It is a true, educational opportunity to allow transgender people to speak directly with HRC’s supporters and put a face on an issue that many have no idea about.  The original purpose came out of anger and a hope to put a dent into HRC’s income at a place that they get their most money, at their local dinners. (more…)

Quotes for the LGBT Community

Monday, February 11th, 2008

by Monica F. Helms Monica’s Picture

It seems lately that a lot of people who have a tendency to post a great deal on the Internet has a famous – or not so famous – quote after their name. I refuse to do that because there are so many good quotes out there that picking just one may not fit the mood I’m in at the time. To me, different situation in activism requires different quotes. I have used many of them in the past, and even made a few of my own.

I figured that it would be fun to gather up some of the best ones that I remember, and some of the new ones I found on line and put them together in one place for everyone to choose from if the feeling hits them. Some of these quotes I will make comments about, so to distinguish the quotes from my comments, I will put them in bold letters, along with the person who said them.

One of the most respected historical figures who the LGBT community looks upon with respect has to be Dr. Martin Luther King. Yes, the Civil Rights Movement is not the same as the LGBT Movement, but his words ring true for many people and are universal in their relevance. There were too many to choose from, so I picked my favorites that I feel pertain to our situation best. (more…)

Monica’s Project - A T65 X-Wing Fighter

Saturday, February 9th, 2008

X-Wing

This is not going to be an article, but a series of pictures of one of my current projects, a totally scratch-built X-Wing Fighter from the Star Wars movies.

Just a little history on this. I started building plastic kits when I was 12 years old, which is about 45 years ago. One of the first things I built was a kit that had small rockets and missiles that were in the US arsenal at the time. Over the years, I graduated to building many kits, until 1967 when a friend an I discovered model rockets. Centuri Rockets had its manufacturing facility with an easy bike ride from my house.

Over the years, I have built over 120 different kits and scratch-built rockets, launching them from many places, including underwater.

In 1977, the first Star Wars movie came out and I fell in love with the space craft in the movie, especially the X-Wing Fighter. In 1979, a kit came out and I finished building it in about 2 hrs, but something felt missing.

One day, while visiting my favorite hobby store, I saw a rack of styrene plastic that came in all shapes, sizes, sheets and objects, and I hit upon the idea of making a scratch-built model of the X-Wing that would be twice the size of the kit. It took me six months to finish it and it looked great. (more…)

Sex, Love and Transsexuals

Wednesday, February 6th, 2008

by Monica F. Helms Monica’s Picture

“Arrrrggg! Monica said the other s-word! She will burn in Hell for this!”

Okay, so that is a bit melodramatic, but after ten plus years living as a woman and interacting in the transgender community, I seem to get the impression that transsexuals, specifically transsexual women, are more prudish about sex and love than the Quakers were back in the 1700s. However, not 100% of the transsexual women I have met feel this way. For the most part, those not afraid of sex have wonderful loves in their lives and are happy.

Why are some transsexual women afraid of sex, or even afraid to discuss it? (I hesitate talking about the men, since I haven’t talked with them on this subject very much. But, I haven’t noticed any of them afraid of sex, or afraid to discuss it. If there are some, I would like someone to write about why.)

It is interesting to hear the various reasons trans women give for forgoing sexual contact with another person. One thing I hear some say is, “Estrogen made me lose my libido.” There is indeed a physical change in the libido level when a male-to-female transsexual begins hormone treatments. However, we have more control over our libido levels then we are sometimes willing to accept. (more…)

“Female Trouble” A Short Story ©

Wednesday, February 6th, 2008

by Monica F. Helms  Monica’s Picture

FEMALE TROUBLE

       “I don’t care if you’re having problems at home!  I want you to make it to work on time, or you’re out of here!” hollered Alvin.  The woman sitting across from him shuttered.  “Now, send in Robert and get back to work!”
       Jumping to her feet, the woman rushed out of the cubicle.  A minute later, a man stepped in.
       “Sit, Bob.  So, you were a little late today, weren’t you?”  Alvin sounded less angry with Bob.
       “Yes, I’m sorry.  My alarm didn’t go off, so I over slept.  It won’t happen again.  Believe me.”
       “That’s okay.  It happens occasionally.  Just be a little more careful next time, all right?”
       “I will.  You can be sure of that.”
       “Okay, go back to work.”
       Robert stood up and walked out. (more…)

Who’s Being Affected by Employment Discrimination?

Friday, February 1st, 2008

by Monica F. Helms Monica’s Picture

Many non-trans people will look at this article as just another whining trans person, complaining about ENDA.  All the reasons we should have been covered in the Employment Non-Discrimination Act and all the lying and back stabbing has been covered by enough blogs and articles that if combined, it would make War and Peace look like a pamphlet.

I’m not here to complain or point out how evil HRC and Barney Frank are.  This article will tell you about a few people I know who have been affected by employment discrimination.  Think HRC or Frank will read this?  Someone should send it to them.

My friend Darlene lives in Indiana.  She’s a 20-year Army veteran and served in Vietnam.  A healthy trans woman, she cannot find a job and is currently living in one of those efficiency motels, paying by the week.  Her only source of income is her once-a-month retirement check that barely keeps her alive.  Sometimes, the money runs out before the end of the month and she’s forced to live in her car until the next check arrives.  Congress should be ashamed of themselves for treating Darlene this way. (more…)

“Nowhere, AZ” - A Sci Fi Story ©

Friday, February 1st, 2008

by Monica F. Helms  Monica’s Picture

(Occasionally, I will post one of my short stories on this blog because, well . . . because I can.  Most of my short stories are Science Fiction, my true first love in writing.  It’s too bad that all of this political and transgender stuff shoves my other writing to the back burner.

This first story, “Nowhere, AZ,” is one of my favorites.  I had a lot of fun writing it.  It has a “Twilight Zone” feel to it, because I love the twist endings that the classic TV show had to their stories.  This has a bizarre scenario to the concept of “transitioning.”  I hope you like it.  – Monica –)

NOWHERE, AZ

       “Didn’t I tell you to fill up before we left Vegas?” scolded Babs, as she brushed her salon-colored, blonde hair out of her face.
       “Yeah, yeah, yeah!  You say a lot of things, most of which I ignore.”  Lance smiled.  “Besides, I can get another fifty miles when the gauge reaches ‘E’.  This is a ‘Beemer’, you know.”  He flashed Babs his pearly white teeth.
       “I don’t give a shit about your gas mileage.  I want you to stop at the next gas station so I can use the restroom and call Mummie.”
       “You do know the cellular won’t work out here.”
       “I know!  I’m going to use a pay phone.”
       “Whatever.  The last sign said that ‘Nowhere’ was three miles away.”
       “Where?”
       “Not ‘where’.  Nowhere.  Arizona.”
       “Oh great!  Now we’re going to be stuck out in the middle of nowhere.”
       “Or maybe, on the edge.”  Lance snickered.

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