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		<dc:creator>Monica Helms</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Monica F. Helms
Others have been doing this, so I thought it would be interesting to do the same.
 
Then:
1.) I liked girls and women, but also liked what they wore.
2.) I loved science and science fiction.
3.) I launched model rockets and even started a model rocket club.
4.) I was very mechanically inclined and loved [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">By Monica F. Helms</p>
<p><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">Others have been doing this, so I thought it would be interesting to do the same.</span></p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-597" title="age-8" src="http://www.monicahelms.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/age-8-202x300.jpg" alt="age-8" width="202" height="300" /> <img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-599" title="receiving-dolphins-age-23" src="http://www.monicahelms.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/receiving-dolphins-age-23-300x250.jpg" alt="receiving-dolphins-age-23" width="361" height="300" /></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Then:</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>1.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I liked girls and women, but also liked what they wore.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>2.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I loved science and science fiction.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>3.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I launched model rockets and even started a model rocket club.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>4.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I was very mechanically inclined and loved building things with wood, plastics, metal and various moving parts.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>5.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I was a wimp.<span> </span>I didn’t play sports except Little League, because I had good hand/eye coordination when batting.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>6.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->With my friends, I was the follower.<span> </span>No one would listen to my suggestions or my opinions.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>7.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I was a mediocre Navy person and employee, doing the least I needed to do to get by.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>8.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I loved wearing dresses whenever I could, and for as long as I could.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>9.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I did not care about causes or what happened in our country politically.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">10.)<span> </span>When making love as a man, it was too short and I wasn’t very thrilled with what my part was in the “process.”</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">(The first picture is me at age 8 and the second picture was when my captain gave me my Dolphins, April 1974.)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><span id="more-596"></span>(Break)</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-600" title="trans-pride-flag-back-in-phoenix1" src="http://www.monicahelms.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/trans-pride-flag-back-in-phoenix1-225x300.jpg" alt="trans-pride-flag-back-in-phoenix1" width="257" height="343" /> <img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-601" title="new-picture" src="http://www.monicahelms.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/new-picture-271x300.jpg" alt="new-picture" width="311" height="343" /></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Now:</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>1.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I still like women, but I’m more interested in their intelligence then what they wear, and I have to go to different places to meet them.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>2.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I still love science and science fiction, and I have written science fiction and have had some of my work published.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>3.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I still launch model rockets occasionally and I’m a member of a local model rocket club.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>4.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->Not only do I still love building things with my hands, but I have a nice workshop to work in.<span> </span>This means I’m now considered “butch.”</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>5.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I still have good hand/eye coordination, especially when I play pool.<span> </span>But, I’m not so much a wimp any longer.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>6.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I’m not the follower any longer, but people still don’t listen to my suggestions or opinions.<span> </span>Well, some do.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>7.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I’m a much better employee because many things have made me see the value of having good integrity.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>8.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I stay away from wearing dresses as much as I can, dressing casual most of the time.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 36.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>9.)<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I am totally interested in all aspects of our country, politics and issues, and have helped to shape these issues whenever possible.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 42pt; text-indent: -24pt;">10.)<span> </span>While making love as a woman, the time is longer, more passionate and more satisfying for the both of us.</p>
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