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Label, Label, Label

Tuesday, June 3rd, 2008

by Monica F. Helms Monica’s Picture

“Yer a cute girl.”

 

“I’ll let our mechanic take a look at this.”

 

“You still have a penis?  Then you’re not really a woman.”

 

Yes, in order to communicate as a human being, we need to label things to give other people a better understanding on what it is we are talking about.  If it weren’t for labels, we wouldn’t find the right foods in the grocery store.  We have to have labels to take the correct drugs, in the correct combination and at the correct time.  Harsh chemicals need labels to keep us from thinking we can use them in our mix drinks.  Labels not only help make our lives easier, but safer.

 

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The Denied “Big O” and HRC’s Corporate Equality Index Farce

Saturday, April 19th, 2008

by Monica F. Helms Monica’s Picture

No, the “Big O” is not about orgasms, or “Oprah,” or “Overstock.com.”  This is about another Big O that is specific to pre-operative male-to-female transsexuals, one called an “Orchiectomy,” also called “Orchie” for short.   Other words that are used to describe the procedure are; “gelding, neutering” and “orchidectomy.”  In other words, “castration.”

 

One of the biggest health risks facing pre-op and non-op transsexuals is the same one that faces post-menopausal women: taking too much estrogen and testosterone blockers.  There have been many studies done on the negative affects of estrogen and progesterone on a woman’s body over the years, some as recent as this year.  On the ABC News, March 4, 2008they had a story on how the affects of estrogen still lingers after a person stops taking it, specifically with breast cancer.

 

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Sex, Love and Transsexuals

Wednesday, February 6th, 2008

by Monica F. Helms Monica’s Picture

“Arrrrggg! Monica said the other s-word! She will burn in Hell for this!”

Okay, so that is a bit melodramatic, but after ten plus years living as a woman and interacting in the transgender community, I seem to get the impression that transsexuals, specifically transsexual women, are more prudish about sex and love than the Quakers were back in the 1700s. However, not 100% of the transsexual women I have met feel this way. For the most part, those not afraid of sex have wonderful loves in their lives and are happy.

Why are some transsexual women afraid of sex, or even afraid to discuss it? (I hesitate talking about the men, since I haven’t talked with them on this subject very much. But, I haven’t noticed any of them afraid of sex, or afraid to discuss it. If there are some, I would like someone to write about why.)

It is interesting to hear the various reasons trans women give for forgoing sexual contact with another person. One thing I hear some say is, “Estrogen made me lose my libido.” There is indeed a physical change in the libido level when a male-to-female transsexual begins hormone treatments. However, we have more control over our libido levels then we are sometimes willing to accept. (more…)